1) In the Command Prompt, change into the directory where flash9b.ocx or flash.ocx is located, EXAMPLE: C:\WINDOWS\system32\Macromed\Flash
2) Enter "flashutil9b -uninstallUnlock" or "flashutil -uninstallUnlock", now you can delete all the crap.
If you want to reinstall it, where it really does INSTALL it. Use a standalone installer (redistributeable), don't use the web based crap.
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